Gifts

You never "have to give" any gift - and, the marriage of two people in love, along with the traditional events surrounding that marriage, have NOTHING to do with getting gifts... but ... yeah, it´s in pretty good taste to do so. The wedding shower gift can be small and light-hearted while the wedding (registry) gift is usually more expensive. If money really is an issue then refer to "it´s the thought that counts" clause in your contract with life - you don´t have to spend a lot, even on two gifts. Best Regards