Love Tips

The Greatest Good

"The greatest good we can do for others is not to share our riches with them, but to reveal their own."

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Kissing

Should I kiss on the first date?" You didn't think I would skip over this question, did you? The answer is no. The most mistaken idea among young people is that a good-night kiss is mandatory. When reduced to such a common level, the kiss loses all depth of meaning. The guy is requesting a privilege he has not earned. The lady is indicating that her kisses are not worth much. The kiss should be an indication of a special bond between two people.

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To attract.

"To attract attractive people, you must be attractive. To attract powerful people, you must be powerful. To attract committed people, you must be committed. Instead of going to work on them, you go to work on yourself. If you become, you can attract." Jim Rohn

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Trust

All happy, successful, long-term relationships are built on trust. That's why character is so important, so build a character base and I will see you at the top.

- Zig Ziglar

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More than 1

Another common question is whether it is proper to have more than one boyfriend or girlfriend at the same time. As far as the rules of etiquette go, it is perfectly acceptable to have more than one dating partner. However, as far as the laws of human nature go, little jealousies are bound to spring up if one dating partner believes that the other is not really committed to him or her. Generally, people date several different people concurrently until they find one person with whom they feel they are truly compatible. After that, they usually devote themselves to that one relationship, unless, of course, that relationship breaks up, at which point they start the whole process over again).

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Call Backs

There are a few reasons why you may not get calls back from men. Many men are conditioned to expect an instant click, and when they don't feel it, they move on. This isn't a good way to date, but it's a mistake people repeatedly make, and that's part of the reality of Western society. So if you find that the majority of the time you are not asked out on a second date, it's time to consider the possibility that there is something in your own behavior that turns dates off.

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Wedding Party

In some cases, couples may feel pressure to include a certain relative or friend in the wedding party that they don't really want. Weigh your options carefully. Can you solve the problem instead by asking those individuals to do a reading during the ceremony? Choosing someone because you're afraid of hurt feelings is not a good reason, but if the alternative will cause more trouble, it might be just worth it.

The size of your wedding party will depend somewhat on the size and style of your wedding. If you're having a large formal wedding, you'll probably want a traditional wedding party with ushers, bridesmaids, and honor attendants. If you're having a more intimate affair, you may not feel comfortable with a full entourage. Contrary to popular belief, you and your fiancé need not have an equal number of attendants, and it's perfectly acceptable to have an opposite-sex attendant if you wish.

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Appreciation.

Don't forget that a person's greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.

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Online Advantages

There are several benefits of online dating services compared to traditional ways of meeting people:

Online services allow you to "meet" lots of people you would not otherwise encounter.
Access to detailed information about people increases the chances that you can find someone compatible; you'll learn a lot about someone before you ever decide to meet them.
The anonymity of the Net allows you to pursue potential dates with less fear of embarrassment or rejection.
Corresponding in writing with a potential online love allows you to express thoughts and feelings you might not share in person.

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Young Love

Young love is when you love someone because of what they do right. Mature love is when you love someone in spite of what they do wrong.
Mark Goulston

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To the door

When the evening is over, the man should see the lady to the door. It is not enough to simply drive up to her house and open the car door for her. He should walk her up to the door of her home and see that she is safely inside before he leaves. This gives the lady the feeling of being protected.

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Stand Out in a Crowd

I suggest you try to attract men by differentiating yourself from the crowd. A meager investment in Victorian dresses, long coats and shawls will immediately draw to you the type of admiration the bikini and thong-clad masses can only dream of. For when men see you gliding down the street they will instinctually see you as a “lady.” The nesting instinct that is all too prevalent in the male gender will affirm itself and they will be flocking to you like suckling pigs to a spit. Why I wouldn't be surprised if after only a few weeks of this simple tactic you may even meet someone who, dare I say, will ask you to the next cotillion.

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Space

If your relationship is getting tense, take a time out. Give each other sometime to think before reacting. Often taking time to think alone, will give you a new perspective.

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Online profile

Write a description of yourself that captures your unique qualities.
Don't believe everything you read; remember that email may create a sense of familiarity with a new online friend, but the person is still a stranger.
Consider in advance how you might handle the topic of your illness. Do what you feel comfortable with—you don't have to share personal details until you get to know someone.
If you do decide to meet in person, choose a public place and keep the time limited to conserve your energy.

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No need to talk

Fortunately, it's easier than you may think. For one thing, a date is usually centered around some sort of activity, such as going to a dance or to the movies. This solves most of your problems for you. During a movie, you don't have to talk about anything, and afterwards, the movie itself serves as a topic of conversation. So the problem of conversation becomes relatively simple. Making your first date relatively short and centered around an activity of some sort will do a lot to calm your nerves.

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Trust

When you love someone, you've gotta trust them. There's no other way. You've got to give them the key to everything that's yours. Otherwise, what's the point?

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Relationships

Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend to them all the care, kindness, and understanding you can muster, and do it with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same again

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When to kiss

When is a kiss appropriate? Not sooner than the second date, maybe later. It will mean so much more if it is not given out too freely. Am I old-fashioned on this subject? Maybe so. But maybe a little "old-fashionedness" is a good thing now and then.

How does a guy know when to kiss a girl good night? He can tell by how much affection she has shown during a dating relationship. She has liked holding hands, she sat a bit closer, she put her head on his shoulder, she lingers at the door trying to think of something to say...then she is receptive to a kiss. There is a feeling in the air that a kiss would be welcome.

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Doors

Further, the man should hold open the doors of restaurants and other establishments for the lady as well as help her with her chair when she is seated, unless she shows a desire to do these things for herself.

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